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Conscious Relationship Coaching

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Partners holding each other

"The most difficult thing for me and most people is when you think that how you feel is because of what the other person does."

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Dr. Gabor Mate

The Challenge:

Perhaps you used to believe that there was some “One” out there who completed you, who could make you feel better and fulfill your needs. Some “One” who was meant to be the love of your life.  But after years of living together and with children, you may find yourself feeling helpless, disempowered, and feeling stuck in your life.  You gave all of yourself to the relationship and lost yourself in the process and ended up feeling unseen, unheard, and taken for granted. 

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You want to be able to communicate your needs and have difficult conversations.  You want to feel heard and understood by your partner.  However, your patterns, expectations, and belief systems prevent you from being vulnerable, feeling safe and validated, which stops you from having intimate, open and respectful conversations without judgment or blame.

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You desire closeness, you want to feel valued and respected by your partner.  But fear of rejection, of not being understood, of losing the attachment, and of being alone leaves you feeling resentful, stuck, and taken for granted.

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Relationships are complicated and we unconsciously show up to our relationships with our emotional baggage, seeking validation and approval, which also prevents true intimacy and connection, instead it gives way to misunderstandings, reoccurring arguments, and frustration.

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Are you ready?

Are you ready to cultivate the relationship you desire with yourself and with your intimate partners?

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The Solution:

Our intimate relationship reflects to us exactly what we need to work on: our unhealed emotional wounds, our unmet needs, and our unconscious and unhealthy definition of love. But if we are able to tame the ego, meet the needs of our inner child, and learn to give to ourselves that which we are seeking from the other, we can experience the intimate relationship we desire.

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Conscious Relationship Coaching provides a space to explore the dynamics and patterns that prevent you from experiencing the connection and intimacy you desire.  It will challenge you to take respons-ABILITY for your co-creation and guides you to reconnect with your truth.  You are already worthy, already complete, and overflowing with self-love and no-one can make you feel better or fulfill your needs.

 

Are you ready for connection and true intimacy?

...I was stuck in a loop of self-blame, people pleasing, and carrying the load of huge guilt, which probably I was not even aware!  I reached out to my loving darling Erika; she was so warm and full of gratitude to serve me as my coach. We started exploring each part of mine to find out where it is coming from, then started working on being aware, and then healing.

Erika is kind, hugely compassionate, absolutely holds a safe place, and most importantly knows amazing techniques to rediscover and reconnect with your inner self. She is very patient and knows clearly how to guide me to help seek clarity in so many situations that keeps arising. Huge gratitude that I met Erika and now she is my goto person in every happy or difficult (mostly) situation!

I highly recommend Erika if you want to start working on yourself.... Thank you for being there with me always and forever!

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Swati 

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